This phase I trial studies the side effects and best dose of lenalidomide when given together with monoclonal antibody with or without isotretinoin in treating younger patients with refractory or recurrent neuroblastoma. Drugs used in chemotherapy, such as lenalidomide and isotretinoin, work in different wants to stop the growth of tumor cells, either by killing the cells or by stopping them from dividing. Monoclonal antibodies, such as monoclonal antibody Ch14.18, can block tumor growth in different ways. Some block the ability of tumor cells to grow and spread. Others find tumor cells and help kill them or carry tumor-killing substances to them. Giving more than one drug (combination chemotherapy) together with monoclonal antibody therapy may kill more tumor cells.